Focused help when conflict takes over.

Constant conflict is hardest on the children. Every service aims to lower it and move the family forward. Some families come by court appointment, others by agreement. Jeannemarie will tell you in the first conversation which service fits.

Parenting Coordination

Including transitional services for families going through change

Parenting coordination helps parents communicate better, follow a workable parenting plan, and settle everyday disputes without going back to court. Jeannemarie works with both parents, keeps the focus on the children, and keeps counsel informed.

It also covers the changes that come later. Schedules that worked for a five-year-old rarely work for a fifteen-year-old, and life brings moves, new jobs, new partners, and children with changing needs. Jeannemarie helps families adjust as those changes arrive.

What it includes

  • Day-to-day decisions and disputes between parents
  • Communication coaching so exchanges stay child-focused
  • Structured help reaching agreement on parenting and custody issues
  • Adjusting parenting schedules as children grow and needs change
  • Pre- and post-divorce transitions, including changes to existing agreements
  • Written updates and reports to counsel and the court

Who it is for

Separated and divorced parents in ongoing conflict, whether by court appointment or by agreement between the parties.

What to expect

A first conversation to understand the situation, a clear explanation of her role and fees, and then regular sessions with a defined purpose. Many families come back to her voluntarily when a new issue arises.

"Jeannemarie served as the parenting coordinator on my case. She took the time to thoroughly understand the details and the specific needs of my son."

Parent

Family Observation and Evaluation

In-home insight for therapeutic and court support

Real-world observation of how a family interacts at home, with insight into parenting, communication, and relationships, including each parent's interaction and parenting style with the children.

These assessments support therapeutic goals or court requirements. When needed, Jeannemarie provides formal reports and feedback that give the court a strong understanding of the family dynamics and the realistic paths forward, supporting custody decisions, parenting plans, and reunification efforts.

What it includes

  • Observation of the family in their natural environment, including home visits
  • Each parent's interaction and parenting style with the children
  • Interviews with parents and, where appropriate, children
  • Collateral contact with therapists, schools, and other providers
  • Court-ready written reports and feedback
  • Testimony when required

Who it is for

Families where the court, an attorney, or an Attorney for Children needs an independent picture of how the family actually functions.

What to expect

Scope, timeline, and fee are set in writing before the work begins, including who will receive the report. The purpose of the evaluation, therapeutic or court-related, is agreed at the start.

High-Conflict Family Stabilization

When a family is escalating, more litigation rarely helps. This is short-term, focused intervention for families whose conflict is getting worse.

Jeannemarie identifies what is driving the conflict, steadies the situation, and presents recommendations and guidance so the family and the professional team have a clear path forward.

What it includes

  • Rapid assessment of what is really driving the conflict
  • Work with each parent on the patterns keeping it going
  • Steps to reduce the children's exposure to the conflict
  • Written recommendations and guidance for the family and the professional team
  • Coordination with counsel and other professionals involved

Who it is for

Families in crisis, cases headed for another motion, and matters where the professional team needs to understand what is really happening.

What to expect

A defined, time-limited engagement with a clear goal, not open-ended therapy.

"I am a psychotherapist who collaborated with Jeannemarie on a highly sensitive, challenging case. She proved most insightful in terms of not only her assessment but her intervention, and impressed me as a consummate professional."

Psychotherapist

Court Readiness Client Coaching

Getting a client in a positive place to engage with the court system

Family litigation is not only a legal experience. For many people it is an emotionally destabilizing life event, and emotions can take over in ways that hurt how they are perceived.

Jeannemarie helps clients understand how their emotional presentation, communication, and behavior may be received in a legal setting, so they do not undermine themselves when it matters most. She also explains the general stages and expectations of custody and divorce proceedings in clear, non-legal terms, leaving all legal advice to the attorney.

What it includes

  • Preparation for emotionally difficult meetings, conferences, evaluations, mediation, and court appearances
  • Understanding how behavior and communication may affect the case and relationships
  • Communication skills and conflict-management strategies
  • Maintaining appropriate boundaries with a co-parent
  • Realistic expectations about the litigation process

Who it is for

Clients whose emotions are getting in the way of how they come across, and attorneys who need a client to arrive prepared.

What to expect

Short, focused sessions with a practical goal. Jeannemarie does not give legal advice, predict outcomes, develop legal strategy, or coach anyone to conceal or distort information.

Emotional Preparation for Litigation

Custody and divorce proceedings bring anxiety, anger, fear, grief, and frustration. Those feelings are normal. Left unmanaged, they can drive decisions that make the case worse and the family more fragile.

Jeannemarie helps clients manage those emotions and work through the loss of a partnership and a changing family, for themselves and for their children.

What it includes

  • Emotional support and therapeutic intervention related to divorce and custody litigation
  • Managing anxiety, anger, fear, frustration, and grief
  • Working through the emotional stages of a changing family
  • Staying steady through the long stretches of a case
  • Keeping the children's experience at the center

Who it is for

Parents going through custody or divorce proceedings who need support with the emotional side of the process.

What to expect

Focused sessions with a clear purpose. This is support through a difficult period, not a long-term therapy relationship.

For attorneys and Attorneys for Children

Supporting family-law attorneys by supporting their clients.

After 30 years working within the court system, with a particular focus on custody and divorce matters, Jeannemarie has seen firsthand how an emotionally overwhelmed client affects the attorney-client relationship and the case itself.

Attorneys should not have to function at the same time as legal advocate, emotional support, educator, and therapist. By referring clients for appropriate therapeutic and process-oriented support, attorneys can devote their time and expertise to the legal work while their clients receive specialized help with the emotional challenges of litigation.

The attorney handles the law. Jeannemarie helps the client handle the emotional and interpersonal challenges that come with it.

How she supports the case

Attorney Case Consultation. A confidential review of what is driving the conflict, how a client is likely to be seen, and practical steps to help them present as the strongest, most child-focused parent they can be. Counsel keeps full control of legal strategy.

Ongoing Case Support. A trusted resource for firms and professionals with recurring high-conflict matters, available as questions come up.

Court-Ready Neutral Work. Parenting coordination and family evaluation, with clear updates to counsel and reports ready in time for adjournment dates.

What attorneys, families, and judges gain

A stronger client. Clients learn what the court looks for and take real steps to address concerns early.

A clearer picture. Know what is really driving the conflict before the next filing or conference.

Fewer crisis calls. A calmer, more focused client takes less attorney time on non-legal issues.

Emotional footing. Parents work through the grief and emotional stages of a changing family, for themselves and their children.

A clearer record for the court. Reports that show each parent's style with the children and the realistic paths forward.

A case that moves. Timely, court-ready work that keeps matters on track for adjournment dates.

"She knows the court system inside and out."

Matrimonial attorney

Clear boundaries

Jeannemarie does not provide legal advice, predict court outcomes, develop legal strategy, or coach clients to conceal or distort information. Consultation and client coaching are not offered in any matter where she serves, or may serve, in a neutral role.

Making a referral

Call or text 516-503-6572 or email JeannemarieMassetti@gmail.com with a short summary of the matter. Jeannemarie confirms fit, her role, and any conflicts before the work begins.