parent coordinator Services in New York

Divorce and separation can be among the most emotionally charged and stressful transitions a family can experience—especially when children are involved. As a skilled and experienced Parent Coordinator, I support divorcing and separating parents in New York State with virtual services that help reduce conflict, promote civility, and keep the focus where it belongs: on the well-being of your children, Parenting coordination is not just a service—it’s a process that provides families with structure, clarity, and support at a time when they need it most.

Parent Coordination is a specialized, child-focused process designed to assist separated or divorced parents in managing their ongoing parenting arrangements. A parenting coordinator (PC) acts as a neutral third party who helps parents resolve conflicts, communicate more effectively, and implement parenting plans that support the emotional and developmental needs of their children. This service is especially beneficial for high-conflict co-parents or situations where communication has broken down and the legal process is not equipped to resolve day-to-day parenting concerns efficiently.

Early intervention helps prevent damaging communication patterns and emotional fallout that can deeply impact children. 

By involving a Parent Coordinator early can:

• Establish healthy communication habits from the start
• Prevent costly and emotionally draining litigation
• Provide children with greater emotional stability
• Reduce the need for repeated court involvement
• Set boundaries, expectations, and accountability for both parents

Parents often underestimate the emotional toll of conflict on children. My role is to provide a buffer and a voice of reason during what can be an emotionally volatile time.

As a parenting coordinator across New York State (virtually), I provide:

• Conflict Resolution & Communication Coaching- Help parents manage disagreements respectfully and productively.

• Implementation & Adjustment of Parenting Plans- Ensure that parenting plans are not just created—but followed and modified as needed.

• Neutral Mediation for Disputes- Address parenting conflicts in real time—without resorting to court motions or lawyer letters.

• Civility Coaching & Behavioral Guidance- Help parents de-escalate emotionally reactive behavior and build healthier communication skills.

•  Monitoring & Accountability- Establish accountability by tracking how parents follow parenting plan agreements.

• Support for Children’s Emotional Well-Being- Empower children by relieving them from acting as messengers or being caught in the middle.

• Custody & Visitation Schedules
• Holiday & Vacation Coordination
• School Choice, IEPs & Special Education Planning
• Medical Decision-Making
• Transportation Logistics
• Phone & Virtual Contact with Children
• Extracurricular Activities and Scheduling Conflicts
• Disputes over Parenting Styles or House Rules

Because my services are offered virtually throughout New York, there are many options around how I can support. 

• Parents experiencing frequent disagreements over parenting decisions

• Those involved in high-conflict divorce or post-divorce situations

• Co-parents who want to avoid returning to court over minor disputes

• Families where children show signs of stress due to parental conflict

• Legal professionals or judges seeking alternative dispute resolution options

If your separation is affecting your ability to parent cooperatively, or if your children are showing signs of emotional distress, involving a Parent Coordinator can help stabilize the situation quickly and prevent long-term damage.

Unlike traditional therapy, Parent Coordination focuses on practical parenting issues and real-time problem-solving. Unlike mediation, it continues beyond one or two sessions to offer ongoing support and accountability.

I don’t take sides. My job is to ensure that both parents prioritize the needs of their children and communicate respectfully. Through virtual sessions, real-time communication support, and clear behavioral goals, Parent Coordination creates a safer and healthier co-parenting dynamic.

From Manhattan to Montauk, Buffalo to Binghamton *excluding Suffolk County*—I provide fully virtual parental coordinator services for families anywhere in New York State. Virtual sessions allow for:

• Easier scheduling around work, school, or parenting time
• Reduced emotional tension by avoiding in-person meetings
• Faster response to parenting issues and communication breakdowns
• Ongoing support without the time and cost of traveling

Whether you're at the beginning of your divorce, navigating ongoing co-parenting challenges, or revisiting an existing agreement, working with a Parent Coordinator can reduce stress, improve communication, and protect your children from the harmful effects of ongoing conflict.

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Q: What is a Parent Coordinator?

Answer: A parent coordinator is a neutral person who helps parents who are separated or divorced work together better. They focus on what’s best for the kids, helping parents solve disagreements and follow their parenting plan. They’re like a guide to keep things calm and make co-parenting easier, often hired privately or assigned by a court.

Q: What Does a Parent Coordinator Do?

Answer: A parent coordinator helps parents by:

• Making sure the parenting plan is followed.
• Helping parents talk and solve arguments about kids, like schedules or decisions.
• Teaching ways to get along better as co-parents.
• Checking that parents stick to court rules.
• Offering ideas to keep kids first. They’re a helper who stays neutral, not someone who makes final decisions.

Q: Can a Parent Coordinator Change Custody?

Answer: No, a parent coordinator can’t change custody. They don’t have the power to change who the kids live with or the parenting plan set by the court. Their job is to help parents work together and follow the existing plan. If parents want to change custody, they need to go back to court.